How to get better fps on pc minecraft (I have a windows 7 laptop)?

I play Minecraft on the pc and I would like to play on this factions server on a more regular basis but I only get an average of 29 fps and when I use my mcmmo or my custom enchanted armor its more like 15 I've lowered my render distance and that doesn't help I'm using a windows seven laptop is there any way i can allocate anymore ram to it if so what do i do other wise any other help would be appreciated

How Do I Get An 'Mushroom Stem' Using World Edit?

I have been looking everywhere and i can't seem to find the ID for a mushroom stem.
I ONLY have access to world edit no other commands like /setblock

I can't use this type of command as for I'm on an minecraft server.
/setblock ~ ~ ~ minecraft: red_mushroom_block 15

----Need World edit ID

Is the Web Development Industry growing and is it worth going for in my situation?

I'm 17 years old and going into my senior year in high school. And am really into technology and coding. I became familiar into coding when I was younger fooling around with Minecraft servers and stuff and have been interested in it ever since. I'm interested in coding, and would like to start with web development (HTML, CSS, JavaScript, etc). So if someone could help me answer these questions below thank you:

1) Is the web development industry growing and something worthwhile to peruse and be a part of (can I make a career out of it)

2) Do I need to attend a university and get a degree to get a job, or is it smarter to take online courses from websites such as Udacity and Udemy and start freelancing?

3) What other advice could you give me?

How do i create a minecraft server for just me and my friend?

I recently got back into minecraft (I'm gettin hit with so much nostalgia haha) because my friend brought it up. We d like to play survival together but we re not sure how to set up a server. I know about LAN servers but he lives all the way up in Canada and i'm in England. Is there a (Free) way to set up our own private server?

Thanks for answers in advance, they re much appreciated.

I'm banned from a minecraft server, and the server don't unban me, what could I do to be unbanned?

The ban I got was without reason, it was a misconception, but they don't believe me, because of what I did before:
http://manacube.com/bans/user?user=Nimeton2002
I'm also banned from the server forums.

Please don't say that it was my own fault and if i didn't do anything then it wouldn't happen, I already know that.

How could I convince them to unban me, that is what I'm asking

How to stop being paranoid about being hacked?

I'm 13. My life is pretty much me sitting infront of a computer screen all day playing my videogames like GTA V, Minecraft (don't judge me), etc. But I've gotten stuff like my Minecraft account to high ranks on servers and stuff, that I'm constantly paranoid about them being hacked that I don't know what to do anymore. How do I stop being paranoid about hackers? (I've tried doing other things, I only like gaming).