When my ex drops our child off for custody exchanges, he will not come to my door as I do for him which is fine. I go outside and he will not get out of the car.
He will not roll down the window or let my child out of the car sometimes for minutes as my child plays Minecraft on his phone. I can see her playing minecraft and she doesn't mind that I'm standing outside the car waiting. I can tell he is doing it on purpose as I stand alone.
After a few minutes, he will get her off the game and finally after hugging her for another few minutes he will let her out of the car. The whole thing has lasted 10 minutes sometimes. Should I be rude and stay inside and wait for them to knock?