I open minecraft and look at the usage of ram. It starts at 400 mb, then quickly jumps to 600-650. It keeps increasing until it has to close. It uses over two gigs of ram. I can't use my server for more than three minutes. This never happened before. I also have no mods, nothing that modifies the vanilla game or server other than a skin, but I've had that forever. I also have 8 gigs of ram, 4's usually available. It just keeps eating away at it.
Added (1). I'm using windows. I have 64 bit everything on a 64 bit system.