Should i be shamed for crying in minecraft?

So i was working on this minecraft hunger games for week i put castles, demon world, arenas challenges, parkour and other cool stuff but my friend joined and tnt d the whole thing i didn't know he was putting tnt under ground and right after when he destroy it it saved i was mad and crying i'm 14 year old i just couldnt stop they heard me crying they were laughing and they said its just a game i feel really shamed or should i be shamed and how should i go out of this sticky situation where my friends heard me crying like a baby help me

What I would say is don't place yourself in minecraft so much that you have feelings about your creations I have built a world a while back full I of stuff and then all my friends joined and blew it up I really didn't mind I actually joined in but then I was never a huge fan of the game I played now and then ( didn't get how so many people play it so often… Still don't tbh) now I understand how you would feel bad and cry about other games like mass effect that games characters are amazing and you feel for them, minecraft in the other hand is the player. What I will say is chin up my friend look at it like its a new start think of other ways maybe build a huge wonder, I'm saying this because I feel the hunger games is old now think of something original.

No, you shouldn't. You've put a lot of hard work on making that for weeks. Some people would just say it's JUST a game, but it's actually the same like real life. Working on a project for WEEKS and then got torn down in a few seconds by someone else. Although if I were you, I would be angry at them, and do something bad to them. (don't follow my example xD)

Let me ask you something first though, before you played the game with your friends, did you say them not to destroy your work?

Even if you didn't, they should at least apologize to you. If they don't, ask yourself this, do you actually like that friend of yours? If not, I suggest you to find new friends to hang with before you regret it. A friend should at least encourage you while you're down instead of mocking you over your hard work that was destroyed by them.