My 6-year-old nephew made high school living hell for me. My mother always forces me to play Minecraft and other stupid games with him whenever he comes over to our house even if I'm behind on my schoolwork or trying to study/take a test. One time he even tried to make mom establish a rule where I couldn't do schoolwork and other important duties whenever he's around! Basically when I get into his field of vision, he becomes addicted to me and never wants to leave me alone. If I don't play with him, he'll tell mom and she'll force me by using excuses. I had to go to summer school every year because of this. I tried to tell my little sister to play with him, but she refuses. My mom complains about how I don't spend enough time with him. Infact, there have been days were I played Minecraft with him from the time he got up to the time he went to bed. I tried setting a timer, but he kept on making me extend it. If you give him the inch, he takes the mile. It's like I'm his drug! Call me an a##hole all you want, but he makes my life difficult and sience I'm a 19-year-old man who's going to college pretty soon, he can't be doing this to me. I hate him!
How to get my nephew to leave me alone?
I know you must be bored of this. I had little cousins who used to do same with me. He finds your company fascinating and wants to be with you cause he likes you. Instead of running away from him make him feel that playing with you is boring and stop doing things that interests him more. Now its up to you hhomework you break his addiction.
You need to set some limits that you're comfortable with and then stand by them, and not let your mom or anyone else push you around. You're an adult.
Talk to your mom and your aunt. Very firmly tell them, that while you enjoy spending time with your cousin, you are not his minder and not his babysitter. You can give him an hour, you can help out your family by occasionally minding him for a longer period of time, but only if previously arranged and of course you'll help out in any kind of a bind, BUT you have a job. Your job is to get through school as successful as possible. And you need the time to learn, study and prepare for classes and tests.
BTW, breathe thru and don't let them push you.
Kids can get annoying. I think we've all been there at some point. I don't think it's right you are forced to play with him instead of school. If your mom didn't force you, I bet you'd even like playing with him since it would be up to you. Being forced to do anything can make someone feel resentful. Don't take it out on the kid, he's just being a kid, I'd talk to your mother about it. Tell her that her forcing you is causing you to not want to. Maybe think of some examples.
Flush him