It's not possible to give definitive advice without the exact, complete model number, the amount of RAM now installed, the CPU type and speed, and the video card make and model.
"I know i need the same kind in the pc at one time so I can't combine what i have now with the new stuff" is almost certainly false. Virtually all modern motherboards (and the not-so-modern ones, too) allow mixing RAM of differing sizes and timings.
The basic requirements are the family (DDR, DDR2, or DDR3), and the clock rate, which must equal or exceed the minimum rate compatible with the board.
Note that mixing RAM is permissible even with multi-channel memory architecture. This is due to a backward-compatible "fallback" scheme that, when one bank is populated with modules of differing sizes, accesses each module independently (i.e., in single-channel mode), which has a minor performance penalty.
(Intel chipsets supporting Flex Mode access the common capacity of mixed RAM in dual-channel mode, and the surplus of the larger module in single-channel mode.)