Any advice on how to get people to like me? My interests are as followed: minecraft, lego sets, and club penguin
Added (1). update: i know my username is coolkid but on the inside, i'm really insecure about not being a cool kid, you know
Any advice on how to get people to like me? My interests are as followed: minecraft, lego sets, and club penguin
Added (1). update: i know my username is coolkid but on the inside, i'm really insecure about not being a cool kid, you know
I wish i knew, i don't have any either
Not gonna happen if you want to limit common interests to those. Perhaps you should get out more.
Steal their boyfriend's.
When you get older, that will turn around, because social structure changes, but its important to practice socializing. But to make friends, maybe go to MeetUp.com because they should advertise local clubs in your area, maybe with your same interests. I remember my uncle and grandmother brought me into a karate place, and I really wouldn't have wanted that, but I got into it to get fit, but you get to know some of those people sometimes. So someone at your age could try sports or something, which is NEEDED because its exercise, takes your energy out, and it will form good athletic habits in the future. Always need to be active. This is probably mentally healthy advice.
Now, an unhealthy way to make friends is through gaming and friend them on Steam and Discord, and set up times to play together. You can also chat with people on Twitch. This isn't anything promising.
To be able to skillfully socialize, we have to practice it in real life face to face. I got into the trap of not doing that and I'm an embarrassment at family gatherings, because I probably do not have enough social experience to recognize certain social cues. As you go through life, you will find out it is stupid to self-sabotage. I'm not sorry for myself because you just be tough and bring that stuff back up. If you do not work on socializing, you will draw yourself away because its kind of a painful experience, embarrassing yourself. Its nothing you can't bring up! Hope this helps.
Also, make education a number one priority because you NEED it. I'm paying the price for it now and barely passed my diploma to get me into college. And it builds self discipline, work ethic, and character, and its important to keep the mind exercising. Just keep grinding it out.